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To Read

Dark and Golden Submission (Read me!)
(Old) Introduction
Golden Submission
Golden Domination
One Dominant, One Sub?

Finding Domination at Second Life

List of Dominants
Helping Dominants Be Good Dominants
Getting More than Just a Scene
Starting at SL
Caring Domination Links

Questions/Help 		 

D/s Paths


The standard submissive fantasies can be very exciting. But they are a misleading guide to the happiness that can be found in real submission and domination. That's the problem.

This website helps submissives and dominants find different paths, paths that work. If D/s isn't above love, or at least friendship and caring, something has gone wrong.

Essays include:

  • Dark Submission and Golden Submission (must reading!)
  • Self-Destructiveness (also must reading)
  • Strategies for Being Submissive
  • Helping Dominants Learn
  • Dominant for a Day
  • Second Life. A good place to find and explore D/s. Much of the advice here is for Second Life.

Mature content (duh). But no porn.

Building Paths?

We need to work together. Um, Dark Submission is pretty much covered, but to add anything else or just talk, email me (rasha@safeacceptingfun.com).